Pre-Meet Before Chapstick
We’re getting back to our roots. Slower. Intentional. Human. Before the dance floor, before the noise — we’re creating space for intentional connection again. On December 5th, we’re hosting a Social Queer Pre-Meet at Madison Pub from 8-10p ahead of Chapstick at The Cuff.
This is for you if:
You’re new to Seattle
You don’t know anyone yet
You want to expand your circle
Or you simply crave more meaningful connection
We’ll spend two hours actually talking, meeting, and connecting — and at 10p, we’ll walk over to The Cuff. No one goes over alone.
This space exists for friendship before nightlife.
Community before cliques.
Connection before everyone else.
Excited to meet you.
No tickets needed! There will be a cover charge at The Cuff.
MIDNIGHT
SOLD OUT
Exactly the NYE party we’ve all been craving - candlelit rooms, refined cocktails, an extensive wine program, and downtown holiday lights intertwined to create an exclusive, intimate feel. Think 1920s-inspired - not as a theme, but as a mood. An era defined by elegance, movement, and celebration: tailored silhouettes, satin, fabrics that catch the light, sharp suits, and effortless confidence. Dress for champagne and candlelight - not for costume.
Our aim is create a setting that encourages meaningful conversation and genuine connection - without the overstimulation of a large-scale event. Capacity is limited.
LOVERS
A night made for attraction: moody lighting, a spinning disco ball, and art surrounding you. DJ MixxAmerica and DJ BabyVanBeezly will set the soundtrack with deep, sensual beats that move through the room, inviting connection, movement, and just the right kind of tension.
Dress to be noticed - whatever makes you feel electric, sexy, confident, and undeniably magnetic. This is a night defined by energy, chemistry, and moments you won’t forget.
Our goal is to create a space that encourages meaningful conversation and genuine connection - without the overstimulation of a large-scale event. Capacity is limited, so reserve your spot early.
MIRRORBALL
Anniversaries are a moment to reflect, celebrate, and connect —
and our anniversary party is one of the most anticipated nights of the year. As a cornerstone of The Social Queer, this event promises music, high energy, and community elevated to a new level.
Expect multiple DJs, curated surprises, and a thoughtfully designed space where mirrors and reflective elements catch the light and set the mood. This is a night that sparkles — literally and figuratively— inviting unforgettable moments and effortless connection.
Tickets will be released in waves.
This is our first flagship event of 2026, and it’s not one to miss.